一起

你说，你好像不大称职。
我说，我对你好那就好。

领悟

相信你曾经听过一句话，
＂真正爱一个人，不一定要拥有他，只要他得到真正幸福，那就很足够了。＂
话说回来，听似简单的道理，实际上有多少人能做得到呢？

简短的句子，似乎还不足够表达它的真正意思。
其实经过深思后，让我领悟到内里更深一层的意义。



既然缘分让我们相遇相识而又不能开花结果，
为何不让它漂亮的结束，留下一段美好又无悔的记忆。
太多的抱怨和仇恨只会让人更累更苦，那又何必呢？

爱过的，
就算某天我不爱了，或不爱我了，也许从此变成陌生人，永生不再见面了，
那就许下小小的心愿。请让他好好活着，也愿他活得好好的。
而不是期望有一天他再重遇自己会后悔或者遗憾。
既然是自己拥有不到的爱，依然不希望对方有任何的遗憾。
坦白告诉他要活得更好，勿把幸福再次错过，
要遇到一个更合适且能不顾一切去爱的人，
然后用尽所有的力气，全心全意的去爱那个人！
就算此刻分开了，那这样的分开就变得更加有意义和价值了。

世界虽然充满丑恶的一面，但还是想增添一些微不足道的一点美。

Probably

I guess, you probably have decided to give up right? I think so... because I have that strong feeling too.
No matter what, I still respect your decision. Because I believe you have spent very long time to consider before you got the final answer.
Thus I also strongly believe this final decision will really good for you too. No any doubts, I won't question it...

There is something I really hope can learn from you even I know it's not easy for me. But since you've proven that it's actually can make it, so it makes me believe that is possible too. 5th May 2007, 14th July 2007, and 4th August 2007, I will always remember these dates.

I sincerely hope you're fine and be happy always. No matter what happen in the future, you still have my support and wishes...